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Kate, he is definitely NOT his worst day!! I remember going over all that with my daughter for my grandson. He is officially off an IEP, which I didn't agree with, but my daughter got bullied by the schools and thought she was to old to bring her mom. I was so upset, even though I was so proud, but tell me, how can he be off an IEP, when he, at 14 can't tie his shoes? Still to this day, does not hold a pencil correctly. (but that I guess doesn't matter cause he has actually decent writing) and I know his muscles are not, well I don't know. I call him squishy. I love to hug him!! I know he still needs occupational therapy. He does not have good dexterity in his hands. He is an old man in a young child's body. My first granchild and the light of my life!! Cooper is your son, and he is exactly who is he's supposed to be. Don't you know, God doesn't make mistakes!! Happy Holidays to you and your family and you go momma!!💜💜

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You are the most loving mother. My daughter in law is also. She fights for my grandson in every way. My son also fights for him.My grandson is so loved sometimes I wonder how they do it. They are so strong and loving when you say about Cooper that he’s exactly where he’s supposed to be I believe it with all my heart.

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This is Beautiful, Kate. Cooper is such an amazing person and I am in awe of him!

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You express everything so beautifully. Cooper is lucky to have you and I like to think that my grandson is lucky to have me and his grandpa and his parents. I know some are not so fortunate. We all just try to love him through the hard parts.

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I have learned something that I didn’t know anything about and I am 83 years old. I have enjoyed growing with you and Cooper and the rest of the family. I have a 30 year old grandson who was big into hockey. Was a goalie and is now coaching. He isn’t autistic just loves the game and I enjoy listening to about Sawyer and Harbor. So I will be watching for a Swenson on some league in Minn. God Bless your whole Family.

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You're amazing Kate! I aim one day to be able to acknowledge the hard without breaking down like I do now. I know that day will come, we all just walk this journey at our own paces. Nicholas this year gained 10 lbs even with his limited diet and weight checks- he's trying and we are so grateful. Dominic toured his new middle school for next year without any Self injury - an absolute christmas miracle if you ask me. ❤️❤️

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I feel like part of your family myself. I am so proud of Cooper and all of the Swenson’s I love you like I’m your grandma. BTW that’s a great picture of Cooper 💕💕

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Cooper is such a wonderful young man and you all are such an amazing family. I feel so privileged to come along on your journey. The Merriest Christmas to you and your family!

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Hi Cooper ! I am amazed by your mom' s courage and love.

You are wonderfull, powerful and loving

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Cooper amazing! Merry Christmas to your family!🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄

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Beautiful

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Cooper’s communication skills have bloomed! One of Carrie’s boys, Henry, I believe made a simple, profound statement—siblings on the spectrum need their family’s love. Cooper is loved and loves his family. You are his perfectly safe place.

Yours is a beautiful example for us all❤️

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Cooper is incredible I'm so proud of you all. Thank you for sharing your journey

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